Saturday
A low key day today. A calm day.
I went to the beauty salon with my family to have hair bits waxed. It was great.
The weather was rather warm this morning and so thoroughly enjoyed the temperature when it clouded over in the afternoon.
I chatted with some people on one of the Kink sites I frequent. Some of them were completely confused about what they seek. Others were desperate to serve from interstate and overseas. I reminded them I was looking for local males only. Everyone was polite when I declined their efforts to woo me.
As some of you are aware, I am, along with my female kinkster and TG friend, are attending two events in Melbourne late February. My male submissive is unable to attend so I am arranging for a male in Melbourne to accompany me. Thus far, he has met most of my criteria. Very much looking forward to attending with my group of people.
I have a play party next weekend. I am providing spanking bench and massage table. My St Andrews Cross isn't required as there is one already in-house. It will be fun to catch up with some nice local kinky folk.
It is time for me to tend to my animals, undergo a mini eye treatment, then watch from dusk til dawn with Jack.
Don't you just love Saturdays when they are low key days...
Saturday, 6 February 2016
Friday, 5 February 2016
Happy Friday
Journal: 5/2/16
Good evening All
Another week over...ALREADY.
I had Wednesday and Thursday off to arrange for my family to return to school. It was a little restful. My vanilla friend came over to spend morning tea with me. She is actually a caramel friend because she knows I am a kinkster even though she isn't.
One of my fur babies died on Tuesday which was rather heartbreaking. My family witnessed his 'surge'. The aftermath was awful. He is in a better place now...RIP, Peanut.
I am sitting in bed, again, watching a movie with my daughter and perusing the Kink sites although nothing too stimulating happening at the moment... well, its probably stimulating for everyone else just not me.
I received a surprise email tonight. I was rather surprised by it, yet, I always knew I would hear from him again. I am pleased.
This weekend, I am catching up with my submissive. I haven't seen him in a few weeks, kink wise, due to various reasons. His health, school holidays and tiredness. He has been over home a few times to help Jack tidy up around the yard so that's been helpful.
My female kinkster has remained loyal to me even though we don't meet up often due to her living up north. She sends me emails twice a day to keep me informed of day. She receives punishments and maintenance spanks by proxy, through a friend of mine. Its all working well except I am not getting the hands on kink play that I crave as regularly.
I am travelling to Melbourne late February to attend to Kink events. One is a huge Spanking party, and the other is a hardcore BDSM play party. Very excited. The excitement is beginning to rise. I will have my TG friend meet me at the airport and we will stay with her. The female kinkster has not been to Melbourne in 10-15 years, so she is excited to explore Melb. We don't have a lot of time but the weekend should expose her to quite a few things.
My workplace role is going very well. I am in charge of many areas but have the support staff to ensure effectiveness of all operations.
My family are growing up but still dependent on their Mother to be there for them. Its good. Jack continues to be supportive to me for work, home and kink life.
2016. I am not sure what this year will hold for me but I am looking forward to it.
Have a great weekend, kinky folks.
Another week over...ALREADY.
I had Wednesday and Thursday off to arrange for my family to return to school. It was a little restful. My vanilla friend came over to spend morning tea with me. She is actually a caramel friend because she knows I am a kinkster even though she isn't.
One of my fur babies died on Tuesday which was rather heartbreaking. My family witnessed his 'surge'. The aftermath was awful. He is in a better place now...RIP, Peanut.
I am sitting in bed, again, watching a movie with my daughter and perusing the Kink sites although nothing too stimulating happening at the moment... well, its probably stimulating for everyone else just not me.
I received a surprise email tonight. I was rather surprised by it, yet, I always knew I would hear from him again. I am pleased.
This weekend, I am catching up with my submissive. I haven't seen him in a few weeks, kink wise, due to various reasons. His health, school holidays and tiredness. He has been over home a few times to help Jack tidy up around the yard so that's been helpful.
My female kinkster has remained loyal to me even though we don't meet up often due to her living up north. She sends me emails twice a day to keep me informed of day. She receives punishments and maintenance spanks by proxy, through a friend of mine. Its all working well except I am not getting the hands on kink play that I crave as regularly.
I am travelling to Melbourne late February to attend to Kink events. One is a huge Spanking party, and the other is a hardcore BDSM play party. Very excited. The excitement is beginning to rise. I will have my TG friend meet me at the airport and we will stay with her. The female kinkster has not been to Melbourne in 10-15 years, so she is excited to explore Melb. We don't have a lot of time but the weekend should expose her to quite a few things.
My workplace role is going very well. I am in charge of many areas but have the support staff to ensure effectiveness of all operations.
My family are growing up but still dependent on their Mother to be there for them. Its good. Jack continues to be supportive to me for work, home and kink life.
2016. I am not sure what this year will hold for me but I am looking forward to it.
Have a great weekend, kinky folks.
Wednesday, 3 February 2016
Spanking party... here we come!
Good evening folks
Well its Wednesday evening and I am relaxing watching Netflix while I update my blog.
I am in the process of attending a Fetish event in Melbourne late February 2016 with my fempet. Its very exciting a Spanking Party with numerous kinksters in attendance. Its fantastic! I need to be around genuine kinksters who are focussed on actual BDSM and D/s rather than the ever increasing sexual domination kink that is surrounding us.
Very much looking forward to bathing in the glow of BDSM Kinksters!! I'm craving to be around my own... without the usual crap people who approach me for strap on fucking, oral service or slap and tickle fucking. Its not really my interest although I don't mind mixing them in together if the connection is present.
I will need to get my Kink fix by travelling interstate to be around likeminded.
Well its Wednesday evening and I am relaxing watching Netflix while I update my blog.
I am in the process of attending a Fetish event in Melbourne late February 2016 with my fempet. Its very exciting a Spanking Party with numerous kinksters in attendance. Its fantastic! I need to be around genuine kinksters who are focussed on actual BDSM and D/s rather than the ever increasing sexual domination kink that is surrounding us.
Very much looking forward to bathing in the glow of BDSM Kinksters!! I'm craving to be around my own... without the usual crap people who approach me for strap on fucking, oral service or slap and tickle fucking. Its not really my interest although I don't mind mixing them in together if the connection is present.
I will need to get my Kink fix by travelling interstate to be around likeminded.
Excerpt 2
This was another excerpt I found on another site I frequented for a short time. This chap totally impressed me with the following:
...seeking
female companionship and intimacy on and off line. "NOT superficial, petty or shallow about physical appearance but educated,
enlightened and sensitive to women; my traditions, values and culture naturally
demand that men MUST always Honor, Cherish and Respect Women and Womanhood.
Intimacy is not about sex but about loving each other and being as
"one" in a shared respectful and loving relationship.
My Ideal
Person
What is
ideal? Ideal is a fantasy of anyone compatible with one's personality, values,
principles, dreams and goals in life. An ideal relationship is mutually honest,
respectful, spiritual, emotional, passionate & intimate, intellectual and
trusting. It is a learning process for both parties.
An excerpt
I found this on a site I frequent from a submissive male's profile. I was truly impressed with his profile write-up. Just sharing an excerpt from it, with you all...please note the section in red. He's a fine specimen indeed.
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I love the concept of control, total power exchange is something that is (for a lack of a better term) irresistible. I am also very susceptible to all of the things that fall under that umbrella, especially a fetish for gags as these are the one implement that always removes a sub's control and forces submissiveness. Of course in the same vein is chastity devices, speech and eye contact restrictions, Objectification and especially bondage, latex and leather, though I admit I am most intrigued and captivated (pun intended) by the mental aspect of BDSM and Control in general. You don't necessarily need restraints to control someone.
I also adore protocol.
I also have a liking for non-sexual service based servitude. I believe submission is about enhancing the Dominant's life, so that service is one of many ways to do that, and it's an honor to do so.
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I love the concept of control, total power exchange is something that is (for a lack of a better term) irresistible. I am also very susceptible to all of the things that fall under that umbrella, especially a fetish for gags as these are the one implement that always removes a sub's control and forces submissiveness. Of course in the same vein is chastity devices, speech and eye contact restrictions, Objectification and especially bondage, latex and leather, though I admit I am most intrigued and captivated (pun intended) by the mental aspect of BDSM and Control in general. You don't necessarily need restraints to control someone.
I also adore protocol.
I also have a liking for non-sexual service based servitude. I believe submission is about enhancing the Dominant's life, so that service is one of many ways to do that, and it's an honor to do so.
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