An interesting week

Well I have had an interesting week, this week.

I run a local online group which is also a real time group on a kink site.

I received two abusive emails from this one ‘dominant’ because I removed his comment from a thread that was attacking towards a member of our group.  Yes the person he was referring was not named but it upset a couple of people so I had to remove it.  The email from the 'dominant

was amusing nonetheless.

I received a threatening email from one dominant.  Sighs.

And, I received a complimentary email from a switch.  Hooray.

All very interesting in the space of 48 hours.

Then I commented on a status message in support of another dominant, and was again verbally attacked by the ‘dominant’.  Apparently he thinks I have so much power that I can bring the local scene together if I stamp out the trash.  Ha!  If only.

Then my dominant friend who made the status message came to my defense.  It was unnecessary as I responded to the ‘dominant’ in a most reasonable way…which irked him but it so amused me.

Then the next day a dominant joined my group and stated he was looking for people to play with in the north.  People who were into more sexual activities rather than BDSM.  I asked a question from the post… a few others responded to my question within this post.  I reminded the guy to read the information in the group since he was new to the group and scene.  He replied, insulted… how dare I suggest he read information as he was not interested in attending any of our planned events.  I should have twigged he was a troll.  I responded being most reasonable.  He backed down.  Then the dominant who sent me the threatening email the day before popped in and gave the troll some advice about where he can find likeminded on other sites to engage in the type of activities he was seeking.

I saw the troll return, and read his post.  It was aggressively attacking the dominant who had sent me a threatening email the day before.  Because the troll had mentioned that dominant’s name, it was my duty to the group to remove the comment, remove the troll from the group, and close the discussion.

The troll threatened to leave the site.  3 days later he is still on the site.  My goddess, the trolls are rampant.

And the most amusing thing about the issues I have had recently is, all the troublemakers are male dominants.  They are all petulant children who try to gaslight, threaten and abuse and all they are really doing is showing how puerile, ego-driven, pathetic, idiotic fools they truly are… and even more amusing, the community can see their behaviour.  

I will not tolerate shit from these male dominants.  They can say their shit outside of the group but come into my group and I will make an example of them…and believe you me, that is not just talk.  I am a Woman of my word, and will not tolerate bullshit from males who can’t get over their ego crap.

Sometimes its tough being a FemDom and a Woman running an online and real time group because of the jealousies, and haters.  Get over it boys, go start your own group!