CFNM - question

Love it?  Hate it?  Tolerate it?

Go on be honest, tell me your reasons.

Attributes

Some attributes many seek in their submissives/slaves:

Honesty - Absolute honesty at all times

Trust - Absolute trust

Willingness - A willingness to do anything that is required when when we require it, never questioning for a reason if one is not supplied

Anticipatory - The ability to foresee and act upon our needs prior to the need materialising

Adaptability - The ability to adapt to any situation as required

Eagerness - The true desire to please us in every single thought and action

Please feel free to add more attributes...

Foot worship

Very high up on my list of fetishes  ;)

Journal 28/12/15

Good evening All

Well this will be my Kink place to hang out more often.

Today, I have left the site I have frequented for so long.  Its changed.  The new breed of kinkster has entered and it is not in line with my interests.  Adult baby, babygirls, littles, and general arseholes.  I am tolerant of others' kinks but I prefer to remain around those who are interested in Female Domination.

I was called a purist the other day.  And, perhaps that is what I am.  I do not apologise for being a FemDom purist.

I will not compromise my kink for others.  I will live it the way I want it, and its a good place to be.

Look forward to increasing interactions with likeminded kinksters on my blog.

ClubFEM Tas - March 2015

:))

Seeking

I found this piece a while ago, and have modified it for Females.  Strong powerful words with insight and intelligence for those who comprehend.

I am a Female Dominant in my early fifties. looking to meet great new contacts, playmates or more. Be it for short term or lifelong friendships/relationship.  

I have been involved with the Bdsm lifestyle for several years. I believe in the human right and need to live the way one desires.The way one is designed. I have little interest in those who use this lifestyle as a game. I am not interested in brats, pretenders or fantasists...I am interested in those who possess the real stuff, those that are engineered with submissive and slave DNA.You know who you are .You feel it in the very essence of your being .You are aware of your place beneath the body, rules and regime of a dominant woman. You should be someone who has a desire and appetite to please. Let me state if you are looking for a violent, callous woman or a cold-hearted bitch, who thinks training is conducted with aggression then look elsewhere. I am a Mistress not monster..DON'T CONFUSE THE TWO. 

I do believe in discipline and this can and will take many forms,is given with structure and goal....I also believe in total ownership...micro management..training, slave etiquette.I regard as highly important for subs/slaves to have routines, ritual and discipline.There is nothing that turns me on more then watching a well trained slave who know her place, be it in the sexual arena, or in the everyday duty of mundane tasks. A slave who understands through training how to behave.How to act when in his Mistress' company, how to stand, sit, kneel, posture awareness, moulded seamlessly into the space his Mistress has instructed.

Sadly in my time it is seldom seen I think many these days only look to the lifestyle through sexualised eyes. The Bdsm lifestyle is more to me then just sexual acts. Don't get me wrong they have their place, I am a woman after all. But they are just one component within a greater compound. I have a fondness for the collar and rings of slavery, i find them on a deserving soul quite the most beautiful of sights. And so there you have a very brief insight into my ideals, and if you would like to chat then i would expect you to approach in a respectful manner. I am happy to communicate with people all over this globe as the world is a small place in 2016. Be they beginner or hold experience. I do not throw promises of anything around for cheap thrills.

 i enjoy attending fetish clubs in the city. So any one with a interest to attend such gatherings it would be good to meet up be you contacts, friends or more..be it short term meetings or lifetime friendships.

My Ideal Person: Be a real sub or slave. Be a real contact.  Be a new friend. Or be something more

11 Questions for submissive males

1. How old were you when you first realised that you wanted to be sexually dominated by a woman?

2. Would you say that the desire to be sexually dominated by a woman has grown stronger or weaker as you have grown older?

3. Can you recall any experiences from childhood that you would classify as female domination (of you)?

4. Can you recall having submissive feelings toward women when you were growing up?

5. Were you affected (as a young man) by any main stream movies that had female domination themes or scenes in them?

6. Have you ever confessed to your family about your desires to be dominated by a woman?

7. What parts of yourself would you be willing to surrender over to a domme (assuming a committed relationship)? Your sex life? Your personal life? Your finances? Your free time? Every area of yourself?

8. What area of yourself are you least likely to surrender over to her?

9. What are your feelings about Female Supremacy?

10. Does being humiliated by female, including being belittled, degraded, and verbally abused appeal to you?

11. Would you endure being denied sexual orgasms for long periods of time?

Welcome back to my blog 22/12/15

12/12/15

Journal 22/12/15

Good evening readers, its 3 more days and Christmas will be upon us.

I have been absent for a couple of months due to vanilla responsibilities.  Its been a tough second half year but its starting to pay off, in that, positivity is increasing into my vanilla realm.

I have been mentoring a couple of younger female dominants.  One has taken to it like a duck to water; the other is swayed too easily by males who manipulate and like to dominate all women, or try to dominate all women.

As many of you know, I am a strong woman who is very rarely  swayed by males.  In recent times, only one got my attention which was special but I'm savvy to the type now.

Do you like those images on the left?  How sexy are they.  Women in control.  A matriarchy society is what interests me. I will create my own Queendom soon with those who are serious about serving Dominant Women.

Anyway folks, my activity will increase on my blog journalling all my kinky adventures.

Ms Neta

Perfect position

ClubFEM Tas Event: 26/9/15

Upcoming Afternoon tea for ClubFEM Tasmania this Saturday.

It will only be a small group of people but I am training two new Female Dominants - its time to pass on the skills I have learnt to the younger more dynamic women.  Time to give back.

I will post some pics of this event just because it will be fun to share what we ClubFEM Tas women enjoy.

Journal 13/9/15

Good morning

Its a beautiful day in Hobart.  23 degrees today.  Wow, almost a heatwave *hehe*

Well people I'm sure some of you have been wondering where I've been.  I've been hibernating plus working like the mad, ambitious woman I usually am.

As some of you know my house was flooded back in June, and finally the refurbishments are completed.  Now we are in the process of unpacking all the boxed items that werent damaged during the flood.  Sighs.  A lot of dusting to do.  Anyone want to volunteer and help unpack...?  Just kidding.

Anyway on to Kink life. What have I been doing in that area?  Well I caught up with my submissive bill a couple of weeks back and gave him a good flogging.  He was extremely grateful afterwards.

About 3 weeks ago I placed a female submissive under consideration, and she has adhered to the usual rituals I put in place with only a couple of lapses.

Yesterday I drove up to Launnie to meet her.  We lunched, chatted, then I went back to her place and gave her the well-deserved birthday spanks, as well as a few extras - let's call them maintenance spankings - with a few punishment spanks in too.  She also experienced corner time.  Such a lovely Girl to have a lovely Disciplinarian like me.

 Life is going along well enough

ClubFEM Tas Afternoon tea - 26 September 2015

I am in the process of planning a ClubFEM Tas event.  Its been a while, and its time to have those males naked serving us Clothed Females.

I have a couple of new Dominants joining us, with our usual, reliable submissives.

I will post a couple of pics after the event just to show you how much we have fun, even if we only have a small group of likeminded.

Happy Endings...

~ Lost now Found ~

I found you only after a short search.

You are watching me.  

Now I am watching you.

I am pleased to see you have learned from me.  And yes, I learned from you too.

I am very pleased to see a few of my words and thoughts in your profile.

Your chosen name is perfect.  It tells me I’m still inside your head and heart, even if our paths have split and moved on.

I wish you all the very best in your journey, it is deserved.

And please make sure you have fun always… with dark romance in mind, always.

Journal 21/8/15

Its Friday and I am in bed.  Yes, I am.  Why? Because my week has been extremely busy at work... again, and also I am feeling somewhat flat due to the passing of my beautiful fur baby, dog, last night.  I had to make the decision to PTS her.  She was almost 18 years of age, and was my first 'child'.  Her quality of life was declining, she wasn't eating as much, she was weak when she stood but always managed to greet me each afternoon when I arrived home.  She loved her Mum very much.  It was one of the hardest decisions I have made in life and so the family and I felt extreme sadness yesterday.  Today, we are a little better but only a little better.

Journal 14/7/15

Good evening All


Well its Tuesday, 14 July 2015 and here I am relaxing in bed.  Its been a long day and I am craving to sleep however, I just wanted to write a little just to share what's been happening in my life.




Nothing.  *hehe*




Just kidding.  My vanilla life has been absolutely flat out - home life and work life.  Absolutely crazy however I am starting to find the balance in both areas.  Finally.




House flooded, awaiting renovations for it.  Commencing new employment, and the challenges of dealing with staff and work priorities. 




My kink life has been put on the shelf momentarily due to the other matters going on in life.  I am feeling the urge though to whip or spank someone's beautiful arse.  Yes, the arse must be beautiful.


I must share this with you all... I have grown back my pubic hair.  Look out the 70s.  I have this hairy busy pubic hair surrounding my cunt.  Amusingly the colour of the hair is salt and pepper.  Yep, being in your 50s will do that.




I am not sure if I will shave or trim my cunt hair any more... I might continue to the grow the bush until it irks me.  Thankfully I don't wear underwear so I am not feeling restricted by the rubbing of fabric or getting the 'pubes' caught in fabric.  I am laughing as I type this people.  I am obviously in good humour this evening.




My subordinates are taking me out for dinner on Thursday because they adore me.  Aren't I special  ;)


I bumped into a submissive who I met at a munch a couple of months ago at my workplace the other  as I was speaking with a client, and he walked past me.  He turned to look  at me, I did a double take then smiled back.  Talk about a small state.  Thankfully he carried on walking as did I.




The weather has been horrendously cold, and my animals have been inside most of this terrible winter.  Bless them.




Did I mention, I am feeling the urge to spank someone for a very long period...




I bid you all goodnight, and will return soon to share some more snippets of what's been happening in my life.




Take care, everyone.


Ms Neta

Curious?

I am curious how many of you have fetish desires and fantasies about having periods of time (sessions) where you are totally stripped of your pride, dignity, ego, self-esteem, worth, and even humanity to the point where you are a lowly, crawling, filthy, stinking, disgusting animal of contempt wallowing in your own filth and that of others and made to be very "pig-like" as far as how your superiors treat you and regard you?




Do you need periods of time where you are forced to be displayed and used as something revolting and disgusting and simply worthy of degradation, shame and verbal taunting.




I am very curious if there are others who conduct their sexuality in this fashion or fantasize about doing so...

Question Time #8 - Why do you identify as you do...

Why are you submissive / switch... how did this identity come about for you?  Please be expansive in your responses.

Question Time #7 - Favourite service scene

What has been your favourite service scene you have had with a Dominant (lifestyle or professional dominant)?

Question Time #6 - Punishment

Regarding punishment




Would you prefer to be strapped with a thick leather strap 50 times or hand write 500 lines apologising for your error?




Give me your reason for the option you chose?

Sighs... my stalker has returned

Good evening folks
Well I had an interesting message yesterday when I came home.






2014


A little background about my stalker's return.


I've had many stalkers in my life...


I met this one on another site last year.  We met in person, he proceeded to tell me how many women his wife had caught him with - at least 3.  I backed off immediately and said thanks but I am not interested in pursuing any 'relationship' knowing his wife wasn't aware of his activities and that she had caught him twice.


He was taken aback that I wasn't interested in progressing.


He later sent me some emails to ask why I wasn't interested.  I told him.


He accepted my reason.




Then, 5 days later I received a vicious email from a woman claiming to be the wife.  Let me say, the woman was psychotic.  She sent me about 20 emails in 5 hours calling me all sorts of names and that I broke up her marriage.  I decided to engage, and find out who she was talking about but she would not answer my questions.  She threatened about exposing me to my family.  I informed my husband about the situation.  We did some research and after a time, I realised who the chap was.  My 'then slave' read the emails and said it was man not a woman because of the vicious language.


Anyway after trying to engage with her 'him' and getting no where except excessive abusive language, I blocked him.


After a month, I unblocked the address.  Probably a week later, I received another email from him/her, apologising for their extreme behaviour towards me.  I ignored it.




2015


Last night, I received an email from the chap saying he was receiving spam email from my husband, and now from others.  He wanted to, in fact, demanded, to know if I was 'stupid' enough to give his email address to others.  UGH.  Anyhoo, I told him it was spam, just delete and report it.  He came back quick smart to say, that I obviously thought he was stupid, and pretty much threatened me to cease and desist with the spam mail.  UGH.  I returned fire by saying - "don't threaten me", and then blocked him.


My husband and I both agreed the guy must be bored, and since he was rejected by me last year, couldn't help himself to try to engage with me again.... in a rude manner.  Pity he was such an idiot.  If he threatens me, I know much about him and will report him and expose him. 






Don't fuck with me, boys!




Why me?  I'm obviously 'a catch' *hehe* or is that a 'psycho magnet'.  Damn!

Question Time #5 - your turn on?

What turns you on the most - kink-wise?

Question Time #4 - Feminisation

Why does this kink appeal to you?  How does it make you feel, within, when you wear feminine attire?  Please be expansive in your responses.

28/5/15

Good evening All
I trust you are enjoying my blogs.  I am not here as often due to my vanilla life consuming me at this time... new career.

I will endeavour however to continue posting my regular questions, and look forward to one or two of making the effort to respond to the questions soon enough.

Be well, and have a great weekend.

Ms Neta

Karma can be one wicked bitch!

I believe in Karma.

What goes around will definitely come around.

I have observed some interactions recently, to my amusement, and am not surprised by what has ensued towards a person(s) who pretends to, or sincerely believes, they have integrity.  Many of us know that isn't true.

I will continue to watch with interest, and some amusement, the outcome.

Question Time #3 - Body Preference?

What part of the body is your preference to worship...and why?

Cunt?

Feet?

Arse?

Cock?


Or, some place else?

Question Time #2 - Kinks and Fetishes

What are your particular kinks and/or fetishes?  Are you turned on by stockings, chains, housework, spanking, leather, rope, or something else?

Share with me, people.

Did you know...?

...that prior to giving a spanking with a wooden spoon or paddle, (do not spank with your bare hand as it will have the same affect as it does on the spankee's arse - unless you're a masochist), you can apply either:

o   Water

o   Baby oil

o   Glycerine

o   Baby lotion

to that sweet bare arse, it will intensify the sting, intensifies the pain to the spankee!

How absolutely wickedly delicious!

Question Time #1 - What makes you submit?

What makes you want to submit? What is it about the situation, and what is it about the person? Is it their attitude, their looks? Age, experience? What toys they have or the way they walk? Is it a dark room, cold, warm? Public, private?

What makes it work for you, and what makes it not work?

Adore the cock

Who would like to suck this nice thick chocolate cock, deeply?

And, could you really cope with something this large and thick?

Or would you prefer to feel its penetration deep inside your bitch cunt arse?

Please feel free to comment below...boys!

Stress Relief

Currently my family are absent and so I have my Abode all to myself.

Its strangely peaceful.

As some of you know, I am a supporter of animal welfare so my focus besides a couple of other things have been to ensure all my animals are properly cared for.  Its been tough yakka though doing it by myself yet more satisfying that these animals depend on me to keep them healthy and safe.

I have had a very stressful week, last week, and had to contend with numerous issues.  It was quite horrendous as I prefer order to chaos, however when you have a lot of personalities involved it just doesnt happen.

I was speaking with my submissive who has been loyal and committed to me for a few years now telling him about my Thursday and the 5 issues that were addressed.  He took on my tension, poor man *grins*.  I'd been to the doctors for a colleague and decided I best have a check up.  Lo and Behold, I had high blood pressure.  The doctor had a worringly look on her face.  I said "what's the matter".  She said stop talking and I will re-test you... 4 times.  Holy shit.  Needless to say I must return next week (this week) for another re-test and some other stuff.  Sighs.  She also recommended I have a massage.

So, on that note, as I was speaking to my submissive it was agreed he would come over to my place and massage me... all over   ;P

He arrived about 5.30pm last night (Sunday) and we chatted about life.  Discussed the new spanking bench he built and some modifications required.  He made me some snacks.  I said let's go and massage me.  He focussed on my feet for a good 40 minutes.  It was meltingly delicious...

We stopped as I had to feed my animals at 8.00pm.  That done, we returned to the room for him to continue my massage.  I wanted a full body massage.  He brought his special creams just for me and applied them lovingly to all parts of my body whilst I viewed some sites, and played word games.  I am not very good at relaxing folks.  I try but my mind is always mulling over stuff... and some of it is shit stuff, stuff that is useless but stuff I need to mull over and work out.

Anyway as he got to my shoulders and neck, I put down my device and focussed on the therapeutic touch.

It was fabulous.

Next, I said time to massage my stomach.  He did.

After that, I was massaged in all other areas and it was most satisfying.

I slept extremely well.

Hm, perhaps I will have my submissive give me another satisfying massage on Wednesday.

Today (Monday) I am sitting in bed, relaxing.  The animals have been pampered, and now its my turn to rest and mentally prepare for my study this afternoon.

No rest for the wicked Mistress, that is Ms Neta :)

ClubFEM Tas and FDCT Spanking Party 28/3/15

Pre-Spanking Party photos (28/3/15)