Journal 20/2/16

Good evening All.
Its Saturday.  One more week and I am off to Melbourne to attend 2-3 kink events.

I will have 3 people accompanying me.

My pet, my Melbourne submissive, and my CD friend.  Its going to be awesome.

My Hobart submissive is unable to attend this time but perhaps next time around.

I am staying with my CD friend who has her own dungeon so I look forward to playing with all her furniture, and taking a lot of photos.  Very exciting.

I wish you all a wonderful weekend, and look forward to sharing my stories from next weekend with you. 

Rage and Pain?

Today - 12/2/16

Good evening All
Thank goddess it is FRIDAY!!

Not much to share with you as it has been a long 4 day work week... and now its over, and I am resting again, watching TV with my child and dogs around me.

I will share with you however that I did have a bit of health scare yesterday.

I had a severe attack of heartburn.  I tell you, it was the bloody cheese and onion toasted sandwich.  I happen to be in the company of the WHS person chatting about life, who became quite concerned when she saw the pain I was in... and sadly, kinksters, it was not a good pain at all.  She said she'd return later to check on me and I said, go, I will be fine.  She left my office.

2 minutes later she returned, looking panicked and said, you need to have your blood pressure check.  I said, what. No.  I am OK.  She rushed off, called for a nurse.  She then directed me to a lounge chair, and before I knew it I was surrounded by 8 staff concerned for their boss.  Cripes.

Blood pressure was taken.  It was extremely high.  206/111.  Yep, extremely high.  I will be honest folks, I was a little panicked and embarrassed by the attentive concern.  I prefer to remain low key when possible.  They took my pressure 4 times and it was high.

They all thought I was having a heart attack!  JEEZE.

I said its only heartburn and it will pass once the tums kick in.  They did not believe me.

One of the nurses asked me to ring my doctor asap to make an appointment.  Sighs.

I left work and went to pick up my other half who drove me home.  I felt weary, and sore from the radiating pain.  I rested for an hour.  The family came home and saw how unwell I looked.  Anyway, I went to docs, waited 5 minutes and they saw me.

I was with the doctor for bloody ages giving a run down on my lifestyle/diet/wellbeing, etc.  Tedious but yes, important.

I had 3 more blood pressure tests, and it was 179/80.  So, it had come down.

I was given medication, and asked to return in two weeks.

I asked her why she thought my bp was so high... she said, it was the pain which pushed it up so high.

Anyway, folks, Ms Neta is still alive and kicking... although a little weary still.  I must rest up as I have play party to attend tomorrow and will be displaying my skills with florentine flogging and fire and ice play.  It should be fun  :)

Enjoy your weekend beautiful people.

~With dark romance in mind... always~
Ms Neta

Flogging time - 8/2/16

Last night, I flogged my submissive, bill.

I haven't flogged him in a long while and thought it was time to get my kinky flogging skills sharpened.

I arrived at 6pm, and bill greeted me on his knees near his front door.  I extended my right hand and he kissed and greeted me:  Welcome, Mistress Neta.

I said hello doggy, smiled, then moved off into the lounge area complaining how hot it was...

bill has set up the dining table next to his bay window as he knows I do not cope well in hot weather.  I sat down and he poured me a glass of water, and glass of white wine.  We chatted about inconsequential things as he prepared the entree.  He brought a platter of prawns to the table.  I was rather famished and ate with gusto.  I chatted about my work, and staff matters.  He listened, enraptured.  It amused me.  He was probably bored but he was committed to me and so listened to my account of the day.

bill had SBS Chill, channel 39, playing on the TV and we listened to various types of laid back world music on a hot Summer evening.  bill was in the kitchen, as males should be be, and prepared the salad I had requested for dinner.  He had just roasted kumara (sweet potatoe) to add to the garden salad.  The house smelled like a Sunday roast lunch.

bill served my meal while I perused the kink sites, listened to the music and alternated between drinking water and wine.

We chatted more about his work life.  About the upcoming kink events and life in general.

It was 8.30pm and it was time to flog him.

He was set up by his leather wrist straps to the rope hanging out of the roof.

I set up the various floggers for application to his back.  I commenced flogging and immediately felt bored.

I stared at my flogger and decided to pick up my two purple suede ones, and start practising using both of them.  Florentine flogging they call it.  I proceeded to practise on bill's back.  I was fumbling a little, it was awkward as my left arm isn't as strong as my right arm.  I kept practising missing my intended target of bills shoulder blades.  I had a rest and used another flogger but bordeom set in again, so I picked up the two purples again and practised the hand movements prior to kissing bill's skin again with them.  I felt an improvement.  bill stated Mistress that is feeling so much better. 
Before I knew it, BAM, I had the technique down pat and started adding in other little moves.

It was one of the best flogging sessions I have ever had.  It was exhilarating.  For us both, wow.

I went harder and harder, then softer, then harder, criss crossing, swinging, it was totally amazing.  I wished someone was there to film my amazing-ness *hehe*.

Anyway, I have a PP to attend next week, so I will do both florentine flogging, and then later fire and ice play - CBT.  Very exciting.  The kinkiness within me is returning.

I flogged bill for 50 minutes... we were in the zone.  He then massaged my feet which desperately needed some TLC.

I left his place at 10.15, arrived Home at 10.45pm, and fell into bed exhausted but vibrant... and sleep
relatively well.  I am awesome at florentine flogging and I have only just picked up the skill.  Look out, Ms Neta, there is more to add to this flogging technique in order for it to flow.

Thanks bill for handling the intensity of the session.

Question Time 4: Choice

Your Mistress/Owner/Domme is pleased with your service so as a reward, She permits you to choose from one of the following selections:

o Clean all her Fet equipment and Fetwear
o Watch FemDom porn for two hours
o A night out with your friends
o Remain home and focus on your activity of interest for the evening (e.g. update stamp collection/DVD-CD collection/read a book)
o Clean all internal and external household windows
o Draw her a scented bubble bath accompanied with a glass of wine followed by massage
o Wash and vacuum her car
o Take her out to her favourite Restaurant

submissives/slaves, please share with your selection, and the reasons why?

Saturday 6/2/16

Saturday

A low key day today.  A calm day.

I went to the beauty salon with my family to have hair bits waxed.  It was great.

The weather was rather warm this morning and so thoroughly enjoyed the temperature when it clouded over in the afternoon.

I chatted with some people on one of the Kink sites I frequent.  Some of them were completely confused about what they seek.  Others were desperate to serve from interstate and overseas.  I reminded them I was looking for local males only.  Everyone was polite when I declined their efforts to woo me.

As some of you are aware, I am, along with my female kinkster and TG friend, are attending two events in Melbourne late February.  My male submissive is unable to attend so I am arranging for a male in Melbourne to accompany me.  Thus far, he has met most of my criteria.  Very much looking forward to attending with my group of people.

I have a play party next weekend.  I am providing spanking bench and massage table.  My St Andrews Cross isn't required as there is one already in-house.  It will be fun to catch up with some nice local kinky folk.

It is time for me to tend to my animals, undergo a mini eye treatment, then watch from dusk til dawn with Jack.

Don't you just love Saturdays when they are low key days...

This is the future...

Happy Friday

Enjoy your weekend, people.  Kink on or Kink off but whatever you decide, have a AWESOME weekend with the ones you love/like.

Journal: 5/2/16

Good evening All
Another week over...ALREADY.

I had Wednesday and Thursday off to arrange for my family to return to school.  It was a little restful.  My vanilla friend came over to spend morning tea with me.  She is actually a caramel friend because she knows I am a kinkster even though she isn't.

One of my fur babies died on Tuesday which was rather heartbreaking.  My family witnessed his 'surge'.  The aftermath was awful.  He is in a better place now...RIP, Peanut.

I am sitting in bed, again, watching a movie with my daughter and perusing the Kink sites although nothing too stimulating happening at the moment... well, its probably stimulating for everyone else just not me.

I received a surprise email tonight.  I was rather surprised by it, yet, I always knew I would hear from him again.  I am pleased.

This weekend, I am catching up with my submissive.  I haven't seen him in a few weeks, kink wise, due to various reasons.  His health, school holidays and tiredness.  He has been over home a few times to help Jack tidy up around the yard so that's been helpful.

My female kinkster has remained loyal to me even though we don't meet up often due to her living up north.  She sends me emails twice a day to keep me informed of day.  She receives punishments and maintenance spanks by proxy, through a friend of mine.  Its all working well except I am not getting the hands on kink play that I crave as regularly.

I am travelling to Melbourne late February to attend to Kink events.  One is a huge Spanking party, and the other is a hardcore BDSM play party.  Very excited.  The excitement is beginning to rise.  I will have my TG friend meet me at the airport and we will stay with her.  The female kinkster has not been to Melbourne in 10-15 years, so she is excited to explore Melb.  We don't have a lot of time but the weekend should expose her to quite a few things.

My workplace role is going very well.  I am in charge of many areas but have the support staff to ensure effectiveness of all operations.

My family are growing up but still dependent on their Mother to be there for them.  Its good.  Jack continues to be supportive to me for work, home and kink life.

2016.  I am not sure what this year will hold for me but I am looking forward to it.

Have a great weekend, kinky folks.

Spanking party... here we come!

Good evening folks
Well its Wednesday evening and I am relaxing watching Netflix while I update my blog.

I am in the process of attending a Fetish event in Melbourne late February 2016 with my fempet.  Its very exciting  a Spanking Party with numerous kinksters in attendance.  Its fantastic!  I need to be around genuine kinksters who are focussed on actual BDSM and D/s rather than the ever increasing sexual domination kink that is surrounding us.

Very much looking forward to bathing in the glow of BDSM Kinksters!!  I'm craving to be around my own... without the usual crap people who approach me for strap on fucking, oral service or slap and tickle fucking.  Its not really my interest although I don't mind mixing them in together if the connection is present.

I will need to get my Kink fix by travelling interstate to be around likeminded.

Excerpt 2

This was another excerpt I found on another site I frequented for a short time.  This chap totally impressed me with the following:

...seeking female companionship and intimacy on and off line.  "NOT superficial, petty or shallow about physical appearance but educated, enlightened and sensitive to women; my traditions, values and culture naturally demand that men MUST always Honor, Cherish and Respect Women and Womanhood. Intimacy is not about sex but about loving each other and being as "one" in a shared respectful and loving relationship.

My Ideal Person

What is ideal? Ideal is a fantasy of anyone compatible with one's personality, values, principles, dreams and goals in life. An ideal relationship is mutually honest, respectful, spiritual, emotional, passionate & intimate, intellectual and trusting. It is a learning process for both parties.

An excerpt

I found this on a site I frequent from a submissive male's profile.  I was truly impressed with his profile write-up.  Just sharing an excerpt from it, with you all...please note the section in red.  He's a fine specimen indeed.

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I love the concept of control, total power exchange is something that is (for a lack of a better term) irresistible. I am also very susceptible to all of the things that fall under that umbrella, especially a fetish for gags as these are the one implement that always removes a sub's control and forces submissiveness. Of course in the same vein is chastity devices, speech and eye contact restrictions, Objectification and especially bondage, latex and leather, though I admit I am most intrigued and captivated (pun intended) by the mental aspect of BDSM and Control in general. You don't necessarily need restraints to control someone.

I also adore protocol.
I also have a liking for non-sexual service based servitude. I believe submission is about enhancing the Dominant's life, so that service is one of many ways to do that, and it's an honor to do so.