I found this on a site I frequent from a submissive male's profile. I was truly impressed with his profile write-up. Just sharing an excerpt from it, with you all...please note the section in red. He's a fine specimen indeed.
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I love the concept of control, total power exchange is something that is
(for a lack of a better term) irresistible. I am also very susceptible
to all of the things that fall under that umbrella, especially a fetish
for gags as these are the one implement that always removes a sub's
control and forces submissiveness. Of course in the same vein is
chastity devices, speech and eye contact restrictions, Objectification
and especially bondage, latex and leather, though I admit I am most
intrigued and captivated (pun intended) by the mental aspect of BDSM and
Control in general. You don't necessarily need restraints to control
someone.
I also adore protocol.
I also have a liking for
non-sexual service based servitude. I believe submission is about
enhancing the Dominant's life, so that service is one of many ways to do
that, and it's an honor to do so.